In less than two weeks, I'll be in Atlanta, GA for Dragon*Con. For those that are unaware, it's a 40,000+ member multi-genre fan convention that is spread out over five hotels in the downtown Atlanta area. Went last year for the first time and had a total blast. On the last day of August, I … Continue reading Old Boxes
Marked
Today has been unexpectedly full of Dad stuff. I was searching my Gmail account this morning for some information I'd sent awhile back and found an old chat log between Dad and me back when I was in Indonesia. It brought a smile to my face and I suddenly thought, "Hey, wait. If this was … Continue reading Marked
Next
I walked into a courtroom for the second time this year and talked to a judge about a recent loss. After six years, four months, and eight days of marriage it's officially and legally done for. Yeah, it's been coming for a long time and has essentially been over since November...but getting the documents signed … Continue reading Next
Coffee
I used to abhor mornings. I'd sign up for the late shift at work and feel accomplished when I slept past noon. I'd stay up and out late and repeat the process. Mornings were for school, and school's out. Even when I worked 8-5 at my old job I despised getting up and about that … Continue reading Coffee
Six Months Later
I went to work yesterday like normal. Nothing out of the ordinary. It's been dreadfully hot in the heartland and I've had a real focus on getting from air-conditioned-place to air-conditioned-place as quickly as possible. I got to work, booted up my computer, and looked over at a picture on my desk. Since Christmas, I've … Continue reading Six Months Later
Measuring Time
I have an odd work schedule. I'm off on Thursdays and Fridays and work from 2:00 PM to 11:00 PM on the other days of the week. I measure my weeks on this schedule; the weeks start on Saturday and end on Friday. It's interesting to look at that very conventional system and see how … Continue reading Measuring Time
Confusion
Historically, I do not have pleasant dreams. Before I met Indi, I often didn’t remember them; maybe one or two a month. They were always a jumbled mess or a nightmare. When we started sharing the same bed, I started remembering my dreams nightly. Still a mixture of confused/bad dreams, but I remembered them regularly. … Continue reading Confusion
Mother’s Day
Some of you have the pleasure of knowing my mother. She comes out to Baron von Swagger shows and hangs out at my place sometimes. She's a cool lady and has been as long as I've been around. She's been doing this job for thirty years; twenty-six of those years have been double time. I … Continue reading Mother’s Day
To my Father
Hey Dad!Been thinking about you a lot today, so I figured I'd write to you and let you know how my day is going. I had to get up early (for me, anyway) and drive to Pawhuska today. I was nervous, because I had to appear before a judge and possibly testify. I remember you … Continue reading To my Father
Eve
Tomorrow morning, I drive to Pawhuska and appear before a judge. Dad's estate gets finalized, and the legal side of my father's passing will be completed. All his bills will be paid, and I will be free to move on from the paperwork, signatures, haggling with creditors, and stresses of fairly splitting what's left between … Continue reading Eve







